Hidden blessing

There is a girl at my work who I love to death that recently lost her baby. She had just announced it to the team that she was expecting and w/in a week the heartbeat was gone. She had a Molar pregnancy (http://www.webmd.com/baby/tc/molar-pregnancy-topic-overview)In her case she had 2 sperm enter 1 egg. I keep on complaining about A keeping me up at night and her stubbornness. Today my friend asked me how I'm doing and I said "tired, A has been sick and is not sleeping well" She looked so sad. All I could think of saying was "Maybe I should count my blessings". She smiled and took off. Here I have this beautiful baby that drives me crazy because she is so dang smart and all I do is complain about never being able to sleep and my friend would do anything to be able to have the same complaint. I do love my baby even when she is teething and has a runny nose and refuses to take naps so she cries and cries unless you hold her. The worst part is as A is getting closer to her first birthday The Husband and I are talking about when to have a second child and my friend has to wait a year to even try again.