Monday, March 15, 2010

White Trash


So apparently I am "white trash" I love it that a person that I have met once and have welcomed into my home has labelled me "white trash". This coming from the fact that I am having a birthday party for my child that is turning 1. He went off about how I can probably not even afford it and I should not even be celebrating her birthday because she will not remember it anyway. First of all I can afford this party. After looking at having an "Under the Sea" party at the aquarium and REALLY not being able to afford it I realized wait this is a party for her brothers and sisters more than her. What can I do that is cheap but they will enjoy. SWIMMING! So I can decorate the room myself and use it how I want to use it. 15 bucks isn't so bad for an hourly rate to have a private room and the kids can jump off the diving boards. But because according to some guy who has met me once I live pay check to paycheck and can't even afford the private room. Well last time I checked I was just fine financially and you sir are the one with rusty cars in you front yard.

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Journal entry... Just the basics

So I went to Hawaii to be able to relax and get my head back together. Well it did nothing for me... It was raining and windy the whole time and as beautiful as it is when you can't leave your condo except to find a place to stay out of the rain the plans kind of blow up in your face. My sister is going to Hawaii in May for M's birthday and I think I might go then, if I can afford it...

A is getting so big. She loves walking with her little walker toy. She is crazy fast at it and tries to take a step but still not quite ready. I finally decided to do her party at the rec center. The party is mostly for the kids so I needed to do something fun. $15 an hour for a room is so much better the $200 for an hour and a half in a sunken ship at the aquarium. We are still going to do the Aquarium just not reserve the sunken ship room. The penguins are going on display on March 26th. I AM SO EXCITED!!! That is one of the reasons I was thinking about doing the party there but it was just too much to spend on a first birthday when the birthday child will not even remember it.

I got in a car accident on my birthday. Stupid cell phones!!! People, DO NOT TEXT AND DRIVE! This lady was totally not paying attention and slammed right into the back of me. She admitted on the scene that she was messing with her phone and was issued a citation. I was taken in ambulance to IMC where they never checked me in and forgot about me until the cop showed up 45 min later. OOPS! Ya strapped to a backboard, with a neck brace on, can't move calling for help because the dumb nurse didn't give me the little remote to call with was a great thing. I LOVE my birthday. For some reason it is a day when everything goes wrong. Luckily this year is the last birthday I will ever celebrate, I turned 29 and that is how old I am going to stay FOREVER! So almost 3 weeks later I am still dizzy and my vision keeps going blurry and my head is killing me. Wonderful world of fibromyalgia mixed with your basic whip lash, a combination that prevents me from healing like the average person. Well good news it I get to do water therapy, bad news is water mean swim suit and I still look horrible a year after having A.

On Tuesday B came home from visitation crying and all quiet. Psycho told him that he is just like me and The Husband. Well The Husband and I are "going to live with Satan" her little self righteous way of saying we are going to Hell and reminds the children of this every chance she can. So now B for the first time has been told that he is going to Hell. What type of psycho mother would tell her 8 year old child that he is going to Hell? Now the kids are being told by their grandma that the meds that Psycho takes make her mean and she doesn't know what she is saying. WELL... If this is true does the mother realize she has been saying horrible things about people for years now and maybe all of the lies she has said about The Husband were because of the meds? So maybe if the family of this crazy psycho would have listened to The Husband 7 years ago all of this pain would have never been caused to the children and Psycho would have gotten the help she needed when the problem very first presented itself. But then again if they would have gotten her help then I would not have The Husband and the most precious baby in the whole world.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Hawaii

Is a rainy windy place...

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Friday, February 5, 2010

Attorney General

If you know anything about the custody situation of my stepies (my oldest 3) Their mother is the definition of a dead beat parent. Well we just got the best letter in the world The Attorney Generals office is going after her to pay child support !!!

A 9 months





NO MORE TV!!!

The Husband finally had enough of the kids fighting and doing nothing around the house except play Wii and watch the Television that he decided "NO MORE!" We no longer have a TV in our front room and already the fighting has decreased by 50%. I am super excited to try this new experiment because I have been trying for some time to cut the Wii time and the TV time but The Husband is such a boob tube addict that it was next to impossible to enforce the rule and keep his addictions fed ;) So the TV is now in the master bedroom so The Husband can get away and watch his shows and play Wii without the kids getting glued to it. I'll keep you posted on how this next week goes.